One of us is a man, one is a woman. One of us is the mother, and the other the father, of a beautiful family. One of us is a Christian with doubts, one of used to be a Christian but can no longer live with doubts. One of us believes in traditional monogamous marriage, one of us has doubts. We both loathe a certain baseball team that wears two birds upon a bat. We are both ordinary people trying to figure out how to live the best possible lives, to find our little piece of heaven here on earth and raise our family well.